First reading Ezekiel 33:7-9
If you do not speak to the wicked man, I will hold you responsible for his death
Responsorial Psalm 94(95):1-2,6-9
Second reading Romans 13:8-10
Your only debt should be the debt of mutual love
Gospel Matthew 18:15-20
If your brother listens to you, you have won back your brother
Reflection
Today’s Gospel is about the need to correct one another. We find the same teaching in the First Reading from Ezekiel. The Second Reading from Paul alerts us to the truth that all we do, including correcting of others, is to be done in love.
If we do not love another person, we certainly do not know them. They are aware of this and they cannot trust our judgment concerning their behaviour. Any correction we offer will not work. We had better leave it to someone who loves and so knows them. It obviously matters how we behave.
If we hurt others we are certainly hurting ourselves. One would hope that there was someone in our lives who cared enough about us to point out the error of our ways. If we don’t care that someone is behaving badly, we must not love that person very much.
Jesus is also telling us how we should go about this correction when it concerns people who are part of the Christian community with us. Correcting others is necessarily a delicate task and so Matthew has prepared us for what Jesus has to say here.
Matthew chapter 18 verses 1-5 records Jesus’ call for humility. If we correct someone from an assumed position of superiority, it is surely not going to work, for we will be putting the other person down and the ones who are being corrected will experience the need to protect themselves from our put down.
If we lack humility, if we think that we are better than the other person, once again it is better for us to leave the correction to someone else. Our pride cannot but distort our judgment. After speaking of the need for humility, Jesus goes on to warn against giving scandal (Matthew 18:6-9).
However, sometimes people are scandalised even though what is happening is in fact very good. The Pharisees were scandalised when Jesus ate with sinners and when he healed on the Sabbath. This was because of their narrow-minded view of God and their refusal to look at what was really happening.
We cannot please everyone. However, if people of good will, the people Jesus describes as ‘the little ones who believe in me’, are scandalised by the way in which we correct others, we can be sure that there is something wrong with our way of going about things.
Fr Michael Fallon msc